How do couples usually dress? Is a wedding gown necessary for me, and a tux for my fiance? How long does it take? Should I invite a few family members? We will have a bigger ceremony later, but meanwhile we just want to get our license and certificate legalized ASAP. Any other suggestions or comments? =)

I accepted and we talked about plans etc. I bought the dress and was having it altered because I was 5 mo. pregant when the wedding was to take place. I planned her couples shower, already sent out invitations etc for everything. I was helping as much as I could. About 3 wks before the wedding her sister called and asked and if I would be a designated driver if they rented a van, and I said No because I could not stay out until 4am. I told her I would like to meet them and asked what time and where they were going. She said she would let me know. Since the bride is my neighbor I saw them all leave to go out on a Sat. I called the bride and she did not answer, called her sis and she said she we already left and wouldnt tell me where. Next day I called the bride and said I was hurt and she told me she did not know I called, (they were in the same car.) She acted like she did not know anything about the party even though I saw them all leave from her house? What do you think